We are all creatures of habit and that is just as true for our porn site preferences as it is for any other aspect of our lives. When it comes to cam sites in particular, it is not unusual to find people sticking around on websites that no longer met their needs for any variety of reasons. Below is a list of the most common issues, why people ignore them, and how you should take them as a hint to find something better: something, we’ve learned over the years, you just can’t always manage on your own.
There Is a Significant Change You Find Annoying
If the site started out offering live nude cam feeds for adult entertainment and then suddenly shifted over to sex education instead, this sort of thing would be obvious and not something worth mentioning. Most of the time, however, the changes that we find really annoying are no where near as straight forward. In fact, they typically have far more to do with the design, layout, and use of the site than it does than actual entertainment. That is why we often end up staying on a site that has otherwise far outlived its glory days. Everything beyond that just boils down to habit.
The thing to keep in mind here is that sites designed to entertain and satisfy us should not be aggravating. Your bank can have a frustrating website because it is your bank. In other words it fulfills a function that does not depend on its online presence and which is more important than the level of irritation you have when you have to do it. Keeping your balance sorted and checking up on payments is a lot more important than making sure you catch your favorite model when she first opens her stream up for the day. For this reason, it is not only easier to accept difficulties when they arise, but we are more willing to let them slide. With sites designed for the sole purpose of entertaining us in some fashion, however, this really is not and should not be the case.
Cam sites are all about catering to our wants and desires. They are aboutstress relief and being able to indulge in kinks and fetishes without being judged for them or potentially ruining romantic relationships we want to keep more than we want our sexual desires met. Any site that starts causing irritation and frustration, then, is failing to provide this sort of thing on a very fundamental level. No matter what the change was, if it affects you every time you log in and makes you lose interest in the models, it’s time to move on to something else. Forget about the money you have already spent: that was all sunk cost from the moment you paid it out. Recognize what it is that is annoying you and find a site where that doesn’t happen. We guarantee you’ll be much happier if you do.
The Prices Keep Going Up
This is another perfect example of something that should be incredibly straight forward, but which people tend to overlook as it’s happening. The fact of the matter is humans suck at noticing gradual change. We’re actually pretty good about things like comparing adult models, knowing the sort of things we appreciate about nude women, and the sort of features of cam sites in general. However, we patently suck at being able to remember how much we last paid for something that is not really a part of a budget or well researched and subject to our generosity as a result of a good performance. The issue is really that this is a hard thing to notice if it happens over time, and subject to a lot of variables that make us second guess ourselves when we might otherwise originally notice that something has changed.
Ultimately, this comes down to two things: knowing you are paying more money and becoming motivated to find something lower priced. The best way to do this is to review how much you have spent at the end of each month on cam sites instead of trying to run calculations on the fly when logging into a model’s chat. While there are a lot of variables involve, the end result is the end result and how much you spend per month a very visible pattern. If you do not recall asking for more performances than usual, and yet see a climb in your overall spending, it’s time to get back into the fray. The chances of prices going down any time soon, are pretty low, after all, and there is bound to be something else out there which can better suit your needs for the same or less money.
Site Instability and Other Downsides to Increased Popularity
Another issue that tends to sneak up on people is the stability of the site itself. Many cam sites devoted to streaming nudeadult women to every corner of the globe simply don’t update their code all that often, and have hosting services designed to handle moderate increases in traffic. If something chances to either how code has to be written and rendered, or the site sees a sudden jump in popularity, the chances are pretty good that the site itself won’t be able to handle everything as well as it normally would. Sometimes this is temporary and sometimes the website admins can handle the code adjustment quickly. However, if it has been a week or more and neither of these things has corrected, it might be time to move on to greener pastures.
For a lot of companies, it is better financially to invest in a new site when things like this start happening than to actively attempt to manage the situation on the old one. Likewise, popularity is something that comes and goes very frequently on cam sites as much as it does in any other aspect of life, which means it doesn’t make a whole lot of fiscal sense to pour money into addressing problems that will go away when their popularity dies down again. Between these two considerations, it is easy to say that you benefit more from simply moving on when you can no longer easily watch streams without having to reload pages, buffer, and restart the Flash plugin constantly.
The Models You like Don’t Stick Around
This one, at least, is an issue that should be somewhat easy for most people to notice. After all, if you like watching a specific cam model and she leaves, it’s pretty obvious the moment you can no longer access her feed. If this happens more than one time on the same site, it’s a pretty good indication that something isn’t as it should be behind the scenes. While this does not necessarily mean you need to start picketing the company and leaping to the defense of your favorite models, it is a pretty good indication that it’s time to move on. Whatever might have happened to cause your favorite cam performers to jump ship probably isn’t going to change any time soon, and you will be better served by a company where this is not happening. You need cam models who will do anything you want. Check this comparison chart of the top adult cam sites and make your choice.
There are many relationships and marriages that can attest that while raising a baby post so many issues and challenges, a baby in the family can also be a great source of bundle of joy and inspiration. To an individual, having a baby transforms him or her to become another person that puts the interest of this tiny life first before anything else. Couples living together in and out marriage find their relationship going stronger because of the presence of this little angel. As a person, sometimes, you accept and step up to the challenge of raising a baby even if you have not parented a child before. You welcome the lasting effect the new experience will bring in to your life. However, your partner may feel the same as you. You may even be surprised to know that the idea of having a baby to your partner might be a possible turn-off and the discussion is not even a welcome topic.
Are you still on the same page?
You feel that your relationship with your partner is “ripe” enough to raise it to a new level – having a baby. However, something inside you as well says that discussion on babies with your partner seem to be a topic that is best avoided. It could also be that once and for all, you want this issue cleared out before investing another day in it. For you, agreeing to raise a child in the relationship will be your unspoken proof that your relationship is indeed heading for a more permanent direction.
Break it gently
If the thought of having and raising a child bugs you to the point of anxiety or if the thought of being pregnant torns you between happiness for yourself and sadness for your partner, then it is time to lay this feeling out in the open. Having a baby and raising it is a completely normal stage in a relationship, but it’s a choice that you and your partner must agree to take on. Understanding the real value of this baby in your relationship will help ease the pressure and challenges in raising it. For whatever its worth you want the baby’s presence to keep your relationship bound together, healthy and strong and not make it fall apart.
Eager to bring up the discussion of having a baby?
Try these two subtle tips:
1. List down the reasons why you believe having this baby is good for your relationship or marriage and list as well the reasons you could think of why your partner may not want it. Having all these down on paper will prepare you in the possible direction of discussion. You may try and prepare your replies against his objections and see how he will take it.
2. Display an array of baby paraphernalia in the house. This could be magazines, baby movies, baby gifts for another friend, baby books or anything else that will make him pick up the signal that anytime soon there will be a “baby discussion” in the house.
Many have tried to quit smoking but failed because there was not enough determination to do so. Even with a list of things to do, without the determination, quitting will only be an endless routine. While it’s a good sign that one does not quit quitting, too many times trying and failing every time might just drop down to discouragement.
List all the harmful effects of smoking
Do a search over the internet and look for a comprehensive list of what harmful effects smoking can give you. Print it using at least 16 points of font size and post it where you can always see it. It may be on the wall in your office, your bedroom, the kitchen, etc. Change the list from time to time to avoid blindness to the post. When you see something over and over you tend to overlook it over time. By printing it again, preferably redesigning the format, you deliberately avoid the blindness.
Write a contract
Write a special contract with a start and end date of your quitting. Include 2-3 witnesses–people you respect and would not want to disappoint. Include a punishment clause in case you fail. Make it painful enough that you would rather stick to the plan than take the punishment but not too painful that will affect other people like members of your family. Set your mind to a point of no return.
Tell your family and friends
Let everyone you know, know about your plan. Ask them to not smoke near you or invite you to smoke. Your family and friends will be the ones to also encourage you to stick to your plan especially if smoking is also against their principles.
Anticipate possible challenges along the way and get ready with possible solutions
Effects of withdrawal can be painful physically, emotionally and mentally. Make a list of what you will do when you undergo that moment. Be firm not to give in. Get your family and friends involved. Give them a go signal to stop you.
Remove everything in your place, home, work area and car, connected to smoking
Throw away things like lighters, ashtrays, and the cigarettes or cigars.
Go for an alternative
It could be nicotine patches or e-cigs but it is better if the alternative does not even look like a cigarette or does not patch nicotine even if it is on the skin only. Go for nuts with shells instead. With your two hands shelling the nuts and your mouth eating, all will be busy doing something.
Prepare a large glass jar for savings
Put the money you meant to buy your regular supply of cigarettes in the large glass jar so that you can see how much you already have saved by not smoking. Plan what you will do with the money as a reward when you have finally quit for good.
Quitting smoking may not be easy but if you set your mind to it, with a contract, a punishment when you fail, a plan and a reward when you finally quit, success is very much possible.
One of the hottest trends today in earning money is investment. In fact, this is a source of lucrative income that many people have made this as a primary source of income. Investing has made many people rich while at the same time those that are not knowledgeable in this field end up failing. It is important therefore to learn how to invest so that you can become successful and end up getting rich like some Wall Street experts. Here are some investment tips that would make anyone, including an amateur investor, to become successful in this field.
Sometimes focusing on one will have better returns – Usually in investment, you would be advised to divide it across different companies. The reason is that in case one stock will become losing, you still other stocks to look at. The disadvantage of this method is you have smaller returns. If you want a bigger return, invest in one company and pour your resources in there. If your investment will become successful, you will have bigger returns. Losing is not an option because before you invested in that particular company, you should have completed your research and background check on that company.
Invest on companies that are more concerned on who are investing and not on how much they have invested – There are many companies that are desperate for investors and they are more concerned on the money coming in. These are not good companies to invest in because they are in it for the money and not for the conduct of the business. These companies are usually impulsive and will have poor decision-making later on. Look for companies that are interested on the people who invested in them because they are most likely to perform and do the right decisions.
Don’t be too greedy – This is one of the most common mistakes that investors do and you don’t want to become like them. This refers to your ability to hold to something in the hope of getting more than what is already there. If your investment had already profits, get the profit and move on. If you let your investment stay too long, you might lose everything in an instant. If an investment is not profitable, sell it instead of holding on to it.
Look for companies that are in monopolies and duopolies – These are companies that are the leading figure in their particular line of business. Although the cost for investing in these companies is high, experts say this is worth it. The reason is because no other competitors can beat companies in monopolies and duopolies. Some examples include Nestle in the food products and MasterCard in the credit card business.
Being an amateur in investment is not a reason to fail. You can still become successful like the experts in Wall Street even with limited experience. Before investing, research the company you intend to invest in and follow the tips listed above to be successful. A little research would not hurt too. There are many tips that you can find in the internet for beginners like you.
Office politics may have a negative connotation to some, but it certainly has its own advantages, especially if you want to get ahead in the corporate ladder or get a substantial raise. But how does one do it without having to fight fire with fire? Or is there no other choice but to go through that as well? Here are a few things you need to remember.
Embrace it as a part of office cultural
Let’s face it, no matter how many times you complain, or start wishing for it to disappear, organizational politics is going nowhere. You have to learn how to manage it, partly because it is one of the reasons why most companies strive to find ways in improving office management and policies. Its sudden appearance may be a sign that there is something missing, something that needs polishing, tweaking, or enhancing. It could be a sign that clients are having doubts in moving forward with your group or company, in which case it would have to bring out the resilience and persistence (or lack of it) of a person in thinking of better ways to improve their game. Here’s your chance to strike while the iron is hot. Make sure it counts. And make sure your boss is watching.
Choose a mentor that can help you get ahead
Not only are mentors good advisors, they can also serve as solid leverage when angling for a promotion. Having a mentor is the best way to get ahold of all the comings and goings in the office. And guess what, sharing anecdotes with him/her (it doesn’t matter what gender, really) will only make it that much easier to put your best foot forward.
Take a look around the way they see it
In an office setup, clashes in personality are very common when fresh ideas need to be thrown around constantly. Listening is just as important as sharing your thoughts, which is why you need to make sure you constantly polish on your listening skills. Don’t be afraid to show the inquisitive in you. Ask questions and let them do the talking so you’ll have an idea how each of them think. If you seriously want to get a raise you are going to want to get on your superiors‘ good side, and there is no better time to start doing that than right now.
To say the least, office politics is inevitable. It’s up to you how you’re going to take it all in. When you’re in the midst of hierarchy in power, people are going to scramble just to have a taste of it. Welcome the competition. Make it work for you so you can get better on all aspects of work. Remember that it’s necessary when aspiring for a promotion or an increase in salary.